1 Corinthians 13:4-7
English Standard Version (ESV)
4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,endures all things.
Learning to love, Christian love, is something I need to work on. The above bible verses hold much wisdom to what constitues love.
If we are to speak with such love in our hearts, we would be able to avoid much of the hurt we cause each other, whenever there are disagreements.
Quarelling is never really useful, and should be avoided where possible or at best done in a controlled manner. We need to control ourselves, and not let our emotions run lose and cause us to sin.
Let there be love in our hearts, so that there will be patience, kindness, rejoicing in the truth, bearing believing enduring nd hoping all things.
Each of these fruits of the spirit bear much to be meditated upon. Are we actually able to practice all of this in a real life situation, and dare say on a consistent basis?

